At Valley Church of Christ, we believe God’s design for the family isn’t outdated—it’s timeless. In a recent sermon, we explored what Scripture teaches about spiritual leadership within the home and how both men and women can live out their God-given roles in harmony.
The Foundation: One Flesh, One Purpose
Drawing from Genesis 2:24, Ephesians 5, and Colossians 3, we’re reminded that marriage is not a competition—it’s a union. Husbands and wives are called to work as “one flesh,” united in purpose and devoted to serving God together. When that foundation is firm, the family becomes a reflection of Christ’s love.
Men: Called to Lead with Love
Men are charged with spiritual leadership—not as dictators, but as servants. That leadership is defined by humility, sacrifice, and wisdom. Just as Christ led by serving, so too should husbands and fathers guide their families with love and grace. Leadership isn’t about being the smartest—it’s about being the most faithful.
Ask yourself:
- Are you honoring your wife?
- Are you teaching your children by example?
- Are you seeking to lead with both conviction and compassion?
Joshua said, “As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord” (Joshua 24:15). That statement wasn’t just about authority—it was about responsibility.
Women: Designed to Strengthen and Support
Women, too, have powerful spiritual roles. As Titus 2 outlines, older women are called to be examples and teachers of younger women—instilling values of love, discretion, and faithfulness.
A godly woman strengthens the family not by taking over leadership, but by faithfully living out her role with strength and dignity. When both spouses do their part, they glorify God together and model a Christ-centered home.
A Team, Not Two Individuals
This sermon included a powerful illustration—tying a shoe with one hand is hard, but when two people work together, each using one hand, it becomes possible. That’s what God designed marriage to be: not perfect individuals, but a perfect team when united in His plan.
What Are You Passing Down?
David’s legacy stretched across generations because he was a man after God’s heart. Whether we realize it or not, we’re all shaping the future of our families. What we model today may shape our children’s and grandchildren’s walk with Christ.
Final Reflection: Is “Good Enough” Good Enough?
Ecclesiastes 9:10 reminds us: “Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your might.” When it comes to family, faith, and the roles God has given us, we shouldn’t aim for “good enough”—we should strive for godliness.